Coaching practices for I Chase the Same Kinds of Things Over and Over More Status More Money the Next Achievement and Getting Them Only Ramps Up the Wanting Instead of Settling it and I Can't Tell Anymore Which of My Desires Would Ever Actually Be Satisfiable Versus the Ones That Just Feed on Themselves
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- I chase the same kinds of things over and over
- I was so sure the new thing
- I keep buying more of the same thing
- Every time I earn more I somehow spend more, and the finish line where I’d finally feel I have enough just keeps sliding further away
- I hit the number I once thought would feel like enough and it just didn’t
Practices that may help
- Classifying desires before pursuing them
Before pursuing a desire, classify it: is it natural and necessary, natural and unnecessary, or vain?
Epicurean Philosophy: Practical Happiness - Understand hedonic adaptation
You return to a satisfaction baseline after gains — which is why "more" keeps disappointing.
The Enough Mindset, Made Practical - Define your "enough"
Decide in advance what enough looks like so acquisition has a finish line.
Minimalism, Made Practical - Finding your "enough" point
Define the level of income and stuff past which more stops adding to your life.
Voluntary Simplicity, Made Practical - Define "enough" before you need it
Name the point past which more money no longer buys you anything you value.
The Psychology of Money, Made Practical - Decide what is enough
Endless wanting steals time and peace; a chosen "enough" gives both back.
Seneca on Time, Made Practical - Recognize and counter money worship scripts
"More money will solve everything" keeps the finish line permanently out of reach.
Money Scripts, Made Practical - Living close to the ground — contentment with enough
Cultivate contentment with what is sufficient rather than perpetually seeking more.
The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical - Reframe upward comparisons as information, not deficits
When you notice you have less than someone else, redirect to your own trajectory instead.
The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical - Invest in what research shows moves the set point
Prioritize relationships, autonomy, and meaning — the three factors most reliably linked to lasting wellbeing gains.
The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical
Related concerns
- When Seneca Shortness Of Life Enough Is A Decision
Endless wanting steals time and peace; a chosen "enough" gives both back.
Decide what is enough
- Stop Wanting More
Define the level of income and stuff past which more stops adding to your life.
Finding your "enough" point
- When Minimalism Enough As A Target
Decide in advance what enough looks like so acquisition has a finish line.
Define your "enough"
- When Stoic Discipline Of Desire Wealth Of Wanting Little
Regularly inventory what you already have and ask whether it is actually sufficient.
Practice the wealth of wanting little (autarkeia)
- When To Stop Wanting More
Define the level of income and stuff past which more stops adding to your life.
- Why More Never Feels Enough
Cultivate contentment with what is sufficient rather than perpetually seeking more.
Living close to the ground — contentment with enough
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