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  • There’s a chance in front of me where the worst case is small and survivable
  • I get swept up in how big the win could be and barely glance at what happens if it goes wrong
  • The bad outcome feels like it’s just going to happen TO me, like I’m a bystander to my own life
  • There’s a big change I keep circling and not making, and the fear is this shapeless dread I never look at directly
  • One thing goes wrong and my mind sprints straight to total disaster

Practices that may help

  1. Look for decisions with asymmetric upside — large potential gain, small defined loss
    Seek situations where the worst case is bounded and small while the best case is large and open-ended.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
  2. Protect the downside before chasing the upside
    Ask what the worst realistic outcome is and ensure you can survive it before evaluating the upside.
    Margin of Safety
  3. Plan how to prevent each worst case
    For every worst case, write what you could do to reduce the odds of it happening.
    Fear-Setting, Made Practical
  4. Fear-setting — define the downside before deciding
    Write out the worst case, the probability of each item, and the recovery plan before any big decision.
    Lifestyle Design, Made Practical
  5. Decatastrophize with the worst/best/likely frame
    Counter "everything is ruined" by naming the worst case, the best case, and the most likely case.
    Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
  6. Plan how to repair each worst case
    If the worst case happened anyway, write how you’d get back to where you are now.
    Fear-Setting, Made Practical
  7. Catastrophizing (magnification and jumping to conclusions)
    Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
    Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
  8. Map best case, worst case, and most likely case
    Write out all three scenarios to reanchor your thinking in the probable, not just the feared.
    Decatastrophizing, Made Practical
  9. Use maximin reasoning for high-stakes, irreversible decisions under ambiguity
    Choose the option whose worst plausible outcome is most survivable — when you can’t compute expected value, optimize the floor.
    Ambiguity Aversion — Why Unknown Odds Feel Worse Than Bad Odds
  10. Adjust raw expected value for risk aversion on large stakes
    A 50% chance of losing everything is not equivalent to a certain 50% loss — adjust for your actual risk tolerance.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty

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