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  • My to-do list has everything I could ever conceivably do crammed onto it, so there’s no honest line between someday-maybe and what I’m actually committing to today
  • My to-do list just keeps swelling with everything that could be done, and with no clear picture of what "done" even looks like at the end, I have no way to tell what actually deserves to be on it.
  • My to-do list has swollen into a dumping ground for every someday-maybe idea I’ve ever had, so it’s less a plan than a wall of guilt
  • My to-do list just keeps growing with no ceiling and everything floats around with no actual home in my day, so I drift between items, half-start a dozen things, and the open-endedness of it is its own low-grade weight I carry all day.
  • There’s never a point where I get to say I’m done

Practices that may help

  1. Separate "will-do" from "to-do" lists
    Keep a master to-do list distinct from the closed daily "will-do" list that you actually commit to.
    Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
  2. Think in scenarios and stories, not task lists
    Describe your ideal outcome for a period as a short narrative before breaking it into actions.
    Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
  3. Only put tasks on the board that you’ve explicitly decided to do
    Your Kanban board is not a wish list — only tasks you have consciously committed to belong in To Do.
    Personal Kanban, Made Practical
  4. Time-box tasks instead of scheduling by list
    Assign each task a fixed time block on the calendar rather than a position on an open-ended to-do list.
    Parkinson's Law, Made Practical
  5. Work from a closed daily list
    Write today’s task list before the day begins, then refuse to add new items to it.
    Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
  6. Calendar time blocking
    Give every task a specific start and end time on your calendar.
    Time Blocking, Made Practical
  7. Categorize list items by time horizon
    Sort items into near (this year), medium (this decade), and distant — then schedule the near-term ones immediately.
    The Bucket List Method
  8. The ABCDE prioritization method
    Label every task A (must), B (should), C (nice), D (delegate), or E (eliminate) before starting.
    Eat That Frog, Made Practical
  9. Systematically process the backlog
    Work through old, unfinished tasks in order rather than perpetually re-triaging them.
    Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
  10. Protect the someday list from contamination by current work
    The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
    The Someday List

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