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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • The escape is one tap away and so frictionless that I’m three videos deep before I even realize I caved
  • The thing I’m trying to cut is just too easy
  • The app sits right there on my home screen, one tap and autoplaying, so it wins every time before I’ve even formed an intention
  • The thing that derails me is always one tap or one arm’s reach away, and I lose to it the same way every single day
  • The pull to bolt for the door feels less like a feeling and more like a command I have no choice but to obey

Practices that may help

  1. Use effort pacts
    Add friction that makes distraction harder to slip into without thinking.
    Indistractable, Made Practical
  2. Add friction to unwanted behaviors
    Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
    Environment Design for Behavior Change
  3. Design defaults so the cheap reward is not one tap away
    Make the high-stimulation input harder to reach than the activity you want.
    Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained
  4. Remove the option entirely
    Delete the temptation from your environment so resisting it is never required.
    Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts)
  5. Surf the escape urge without acting on it
    Treat the urge to flee as a wave — it rises, peaks, and falls without requiring your action.
    Panic Surfing
  6. Tame the Infinity Pools
    Add friction to bottomless apps — news feeds, email, video — so they stop hijacking attention.
    Make Time, Made Practical
  7. Add friction to attention-capture apps
    Increase the effort required to open distracting apps so the default path is not the lowest-resistance one.
    The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It
  8. Notice the urge as it arises
    Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  9. Treat a lapse as data, not failure
    Expect occasional slips and use them to refine the swap rather than to quit.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  10. Increase friction on high-capture apps
    Add steps between you and the apps most likely to capture you — every additional tap reduces automatic use.
    Grayscale Phone Mode and Behavioral Design

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