Coaching practices for Whenever Something Isn't Working My Instinct is Always to Add Another Rule Another Tool Another Habit on Top and My Routine Has Gotten So Bloated It's Collapsing Under Its Own Weight it Never Even Occurs to Me That the Fix Might Be Taking Something Away Instead of Cramming More in
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- Whenever something isn’t working my instinct is always to add
- I get excited and try to overhaul everything at once
- This thing I’m building keeps swelling
- Every time I try to get organized I try to overhaul everything at once, and a week later the whole thing has collapsed because it was too much to keep up
- My reflex is always "just try harder, add more, set a stricter target," and I keep doing it even though the same problem comes back every time
Practices that may help
- Solve by subtraction
Ask what to remove before asking what to add.
Inversion: Solve Problems Backward - Start with a maximum of three mini habits simultaneously
More than three mini habits at once means none of them are truly mini — the simplicity is the point.
Mini Habits, Made Practical - Ruthlessly edit projects in progress
Cut content, scope, or steps from anything in progress that doesn’t serve the core goal.
Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential - Build the capture habit before anything else
Install one habit at a time — start with ubiquitous capture — before adding other ZTD practices.
Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical - Resist the pull to optimize parameters when structure is the problem
Notice when you are adjusting numbers and ask whether the structure is the actual problem.
Leverage Points - Let the habit grow on its own
Once the tiny habit is automatic, let it expand naturally instead of forcing more.
Tiny Habits, Made Practical - Map the cue-routine-reward loop
Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
The Power of Habit, Made Practical - Run one chain at a time to prevent dilution
Start a second chain only after the first has run for at least 30 days without breaking.
The Seinfeld Strategy: Don’t Break the Chain - Find your keystone habit — the one that cascades into others
Identify a single habit whose consistency seems to lift other behaviors along with it.
The Habit Loop, Made Practical - Habit stacking
Anchor a new habit to one you already do: “After [current habit], I will [new habit].”
Atomic Habits, Made Practical
Related concerns
- James Clear Habit Stacking
Anchor a new habit to one you already do: “After [current habit], I will [new habit].”
Habit stacking
- One Habit At A Time
Install one habit at a time — start with ubiquitous capture — before adding other ZTD practices.
Build the capture habit before anything else
- One Push Up Habit
Once the tiny habit is automatic, let it expand naturally instead of forcing more.
Let the habit grow on its own
- One Push Up Habit System
Once the tiny habit is automatic, let it expand naturally instead of forcing more.
- Atomic Habits Four Laws
James Clear’s system says behavior change is a system problem, not a willpower problem: make a desired habit obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying — and do the reverse for bad ones. The most load-bearing ideas (implementation intentions, friction reduction, identity-based change) are well supported in the research literature.
- Avoid Habit Overload
More than three mini habits at once means none of them are truly mini — the simplicity is the point.
Start with a maximum of three mini habits simultaneously
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