Coaching practices for My Worst Case is Basically Just the Worst Thing That's Ever Happened Before and I Keep Assuming Nothing Can Be Worse Than That but I Want to Know Whether My Plan Would Still Stand If the Hit Came in Two or Three Times Bigger Than Anything I've Actually Seen
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- My worst-case is basically just the worst thing that’s ever happened before, and I keep assuming nothing can be worse than that
- One small thing goes wrong and my mind sprints straight to the absolute worst ending
- Some part of me treats this failure as final
- I’m bracing for and planning around the absolute worst version of how this goes, and it hasn’t even crossed my mind that there’s a whole range of ordinary, fine outcomes that are far likelier than the one I keep rehearsing.
- One thing goes wrong and my mind sprints straight to total disaster
Practices that may help
- Stress test plans against outcomes beyond the historical range
Ask how your plan holds up if the worst outcome is twice as bad as any historically observed case.
The Ludic Fallacy: When You Mistake Real Life for a Game - Catastrophizing (magnification and jumping to conclusions)
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression - Plan how to repair each worst case
If the worst case happened anyway, write how you’d get back to where you are now.
Fear-Setting, Made Practical - Map best case, worst case, and most likely case
Write out all three scenarios to reanchor your thinking in the probable, not just the feared.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Decatastrophize with the worst/best/likely frame
Counter "everything is ruined" by naming the worst case, the best case, and the most likely case.
Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism - Check for catastrophizing
Test whether you are amplifying the likely outcome beyond what the evidence supports.
Check the Facts, Made Practical - Plan how to prevent each worst case
For every worst case, write what you could do to reduce the odds of it happening.
Fear-Setting, Made Practical - Decatastrophize the worst case
Follow the fear to its end and ask "and then what — could I cope?"
Cognitive Reframing, Made Practical - Ask: could you cope even if the worst happened?
Catastrophizing also underestimates your coping capacity — examine that half of the equation.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Protect the downside before chasing the upside
Ask what the worst realistic outcome is and ensure you can survive it before evaluating the upside.
Margin of Safety
Related concerns
- Coping With Worst Case
Test whether you are amplifying the likely outcome beyond what the evidence supports.
Check for catastrophizing
- What If The Worst Happens
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
Catastrophizing (magnification and jumping to conclusions)
- Worst Case Best Case
Ask how your plan holds up if the worst outcome is twice as bad as any historically observed case.
Stress test plans against outcomes beyond the historical range
- Worst Case Scenario Exercise
Ask how your plan holds up if the worst outcome is twice as bad as any historically observed case.
- Worst Case Thinking
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
- Best Worst Most Likely Case
Ask how your plan holds up if the worst outcome is twice as bad as any historically observed case.
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