Coaching practices for I Keep Grinding Away at This Without Ever Having Really Looked in Close Detail at What Truly Great Looks Like So I'm Aiming at a Fuzzy Idea of Good and I Think I Can't Become Excellent at Something I Can't Even Picture Clearly
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep grinding away at this without ever having really looked, in close detail, at what truly great looks like
- When I practice I’m just kind of doing it again and hoping it’s better, because I don’t actually have a clear picture in my head of what great is supposed to look like
- I can’t actually tell good from great while I’m doing it
- I’ve plateaued — I keep working hard but I’m not getting closer to the people I admire in this field, and I can’t even pinpoint what they’re doing that I’m not, which is exactly the part I want to be able to finally see.
- I keep planning this thing in my head where it all seems to work perfectly, but the second I try to actually make it I realize I had no idea what I really wanted
Practices that may help
- Study models of excellent performance to build a representation of the target
Absorb what elite performance looks like in concrete detail before trying to produce it.
Mental Representations: The Expert’s Internal Map - Build sharper mental representations
Develop a detailed internal model of what excellent performance looks like.
Deliberate Practice, Not Just Practice - Build and refine mental representations of expert performance
Develop an internal image of what excellent execution looks, feels, and sounds like.
Growth-Edge Training: Practicing at the Edge of Your Ability - Study what separates you from the best in the field
Identify the two or three things that the top performers do that you do not — yet.
The Dunning-Kruger Effect, Understood Clearly - Prototype to think, not to finish
Build or sketch something rough specifically to learn what you actually want.
Quantity Over Quality: How More Drafts Produce Better Work - Compare each practice attempt to your mental representation of the target
After every attempt, evaluate it against your internal model — not against how it felt.
Mental Representations: The Expert’s Internal Map - Build chunks so working memory is freed for diffuse connections
Drill the basics until they are automatic, freeing cognitive resources for higher-level synthesis.
Focused vs Diffuse Thinking - Structured reflection on performance
Systematically compare your performance to an expert model to build accurate self-assessment.
Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible - Practice deliberately, not just repeatedly
Target weaknesses with full focus and feedback, not comfortable repetition.
Grit: Passion and Perseverance, Honestly Assessed - Demonstrate the target performance before demanding it
Show what success looks like before asking the learner to produce it independently.
Scaffolding: The Art of Temporary Learning Support
Related concerns
- When The Growth Edge Training Mental Representations
Develop an internal image of what excellent execution looks, feels, and sounds like.
Build and refine mental representations of expert performance
- When Deliberate Practice Mental Representations
Develop a detailed internal model of what excellent performance looks like.
Build sharper mental representations
- Deliberate Practice Mental Model
Develop a detailed internal model of what excellent performance looks like.
- What Mastery Actually Looks Like
Actively look for respected people who openly describe their own learning curve — they recalibrate your model of what mastery looks like.
Seek mentors who name their own uncertainty
- When Scaffolding Learning Demonstrate The Path
Show what success looks like before asking the learner to produce it independently.
Demonstrate the target performance before demanding it
- Comparing Yourself To Experts
Choose who you regularly compare yourself to — peers at a similar stage, not outliers at the peak.
Curate your comparison pool deliberately
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