Coaching practices for I've Got Two Stories About Why This Happened and I Keep Flip Flopping One Needs a Whole Chain of Ifs to Hold Together and the Other's Plain and I Want to Actually Count What Each One is Quietly Asking Me to Believe

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’ve got two stories about why this happened and I keep flip-flopping
  • I’ve got this clean, satisfying explanation for why it all went the way it did, and it feels airtight
  • Because I can explain exactly why something would happen, I treat it as likely to happen
  • I traced a problem down to what felt like the real cause and it all hangs together so neatly that I trust it completely
  • I’m betting on "this will happen and then that will follow," and the link between them feels airtight to me

Practices that may help

  1. Count the assumptions each explanation requires
    When two explanations fit the facts, count how many unverified assumptions each one rests on.
    Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation
  2. Identify what the narrative leaves out
    After hearing or constructing a causal story, deliberately list the facts it doesn’t explain.
    The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
  3. Explicitly distinguish coherence from probability
    A story can be internally consistent and still be rare — learn to separate "makes sense" from "likely."
    The Conjunction Fallacy — When "More Details" Feels More Likely
  4. Verify the root cause by tracing back up the chain
    After reaching a root, work back up: does each "because" in the chain make logical sense?
    The Five Whys
  5. Red-team joint scenarios before betting on them
    Before acting on a conjunction ("X will happen AND Y will follow"), assign a skeptic to attack the "and."
    The Conjunction Fallacy — When "More Details" Feels More Likely
  6. Finding Unique Outcomes (Exceptions to the Problem Story)
    Surface moments when the problem did NOT dominate — these are the seeds of an alternative story.
    Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You
  7. Separate the data from the narrative you’ve built around it
    List the raw facts, then list the story you’ve layered on top — and check whether the story actually follows.
    The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
  8. Share the messy version, not the edited highlight reel
    The over-polished version of your story creates distance; the real version creates connection.
    The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical
  9. Strip the narrative and restate as a bare frequency claim
    Translate the vivid scenario into a dry statistical question to see if it still feels probable.
    The Conjunction Fallacy — When "More Details" Feels More Likely
  10. Consult an outside observer to counteract narrative pull
    Describe the scenario to someone who doesn’t share your narrative context and listen to their probability estimate.
    The Conjunction Fallacy — When "More Details" Feels More Likely

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