Coaching practices for My Theory About Why This Keeps Happening Has Grown So Many Moving Parts That it Explains Every Little Quirk Perfectly and That Very Perfection is Starting to Worry Me Like I've Built Something That Fits the Past but Would Predict Nothing New
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My theory about why this keeps happening has grown so many moving parts that it explains every little quirk perfectly
- I’ve got this clean, satisfying explanation for why it all went the way it did, and it feels airtight
- I’ve got two stories about why this happened and I keep flip-flopping
- When I picture this one thing going wrong it swells up to fill my whole future, like nothing else will exist afterward
- One bad thing happens and instantly it’s "this always happens, it ruins everything, and it’s all my fault"
Practices that may help
- Trim model complexity
Prefer the simplest model of a situation that still fits all the evidence.
Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation - Identify what the narrative leaves out
After hearing or constructing a causal story, deliberately list the facts it doesn’t explain.
The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories - Count the assumptions each explanation requires
When two explanations fit the facts, count how many unverified assumptions each one rests on.
Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation - Identify the other things that will also be true of your future life
Focalism makes future events seem bigger than they are by ignoring all the other things that will still be present.
Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel - Identify the three Ps in your explanation
Check whether your explanation of a setback is permanent, pervasive, or personal — and how accurate each is.
Learned Optimism: Seligman’s ABCDE Method - Recognize system archetypes: the recurring plots
Learn the handful of common structural patterns that produce the same behaviors in very different settings.
Systems Thinking - Name the impostor cycle
Map your own version of the cycle — anxiety, over-preparation or avoidance, success, re-attribution — so you can see it happening in real time.
Impostor Phenomenon, Made Practical - Catch the three Ps in your explanations
Notice whether you’re reading a setback as permanent, pervasive, and personal — the pessimistic signature.
Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism - Change exactly one element and observe what shifts
Alter a single variable at a time to see how the rest of the system responds.
Oblique Strategies, Made Practical - Follow the causal chain until you reach a changeable cause
Keep asking "why?" until you reach something you can actually fix.
The Five Whys
Related concerns
- Occam S Razor Prefer The Simpler Explanation After A Setback
Occam’s Razor is the heuristic that, all else being equal, the explanation with fewer unnecessary assumptions is preferable. It does not guarantee correctness — the world is sometimes genuinely complex — but it guards against over-fitting, conspiracy thinking, and the cognitive overhead of maintaining elaborate theories.
- When Dependent Origination Nagarjuna Emptiness Links
Each link in the chain is empty of inherent existence — which means the chain has no necessity, only conditionality.
Nagarjuna's insight: no link exists independently
- When Learned Optimism Alternative Explanations
For any setback, produce at least three competing explanations before settling on one.
Generate alternative, more accurate explanations
- When Mental Models Latticework Identify Lollapalooza Effects
When several biases or forces combine on a single outcome, expect an extreme result.
Watch for lollapalooza effects — multiple models pointing the same direction
- When Narrative Fallacy Identify What The Story Omits
After hearing or constructing a causal story, deliberately list the facts it doesn’t explain.
Identify what the narrative leaves out
- When Occams Razor Single Cause Trap
Simple doesn’t always mean one cause — sometimes the simplest honest answer is 'multiple contributing factors.'
Resist the single-cause trap
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