Coaching practices for I Just Know What This is but If You Pressed Me on How I Know All I've Got is it Feels Right and That Unsettles Me Because If I Can't Name What I Actually Noticed I Can't Check Whether I'm Reading it Correctly or Just Pattern Matching on the Surface
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- I just know what this is, but if you pressed me on how I know, all I’ve got is "it feels right"
- I read the material, it all feels familiar and smooth, so I close the book sure I’ve got it
- A term jumps out as familiar so I assume I know what it means
- I keep getting blindsided by the same kind of situation
- There are things I’m sure are true mostly because I’ve heard them a hundred times and they go down so smooth and familiar
Practices that may help
- Articulate the cues that triggered your recognition
Name what you noticed that made the situation feel familiar — this tests the recognition and transfers it.
Recognition-Primed Decision Making - Calibrate your confidence against real testing
Test yourself to find out what you actually know, not what you feel you know.
Metacognition: Knowing What You Actually Know - Source monitoring
When you feel you know something, also ask yourself where you learned it and how recently.
Feeling of Knowing: Why Your Confidence Misleads You - Conduct premortems on your past recognition failures
Review cases where pattern recognition led you wrong to find the shared structural feature that fools you.
Recognition-Primed Decision Making - Distrust easy fluency
Treat "this feels obviously right" as a flag to check, not a signal to proceed.
Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable - Find a handle word or image
Let a word, phrase, or image arise from the felt sense — not the other way around.
Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical - Build pattern libraries through deliberate case exposure
Systematically expose yourself to varied cases in your domain to grow the pattern library recognition draws from.
Recognition-Primed Decision Making - Fresh-eyes inquiry: "What if I knew nothing about this?"
Before engaging a familiar situation, ask what you would notice if you were seeing it for the first time.
Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical - Retrieval-based JOL
Base your confidence rating on whether you can recall the answer, not on whether the material feels familiar.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Real-time self-monitoring
Check comprehension actively during study — pausing to test yourself rather than assuming understanding.
Self-Regulated Learning: Taking Control of How You Learn
Related concerns
- When Make It Stick Beware Fluency Illusions
Don’t trust the feeling of fluency — it routinely overstates what you actually know.
Beware illusions of knowing
- Case Based Knowledge Extraction
Accumulate a diverse set of cases with known outcomes, and retrieve structurally similar ones when facing a new problem.
Build a library of cases and reason from them
- Feeling Of Knowing
The feeling of knowing (FOK) is a metacognitive judgment about whether you would recognize or recall information you cannot currently retrieve — the "I know it but can’t say it" experience. Janet Metcalfe’s research shows FOK judgments are often accurate for recognition but systematically overestimate actual recall ability, leading learners to stop studying material they feel they know but cannot actually retrieve.
- Prior Knowledge Assessment
Before reading anything new, write down everything you already believe about the topic.
Write what you already know before reading a topic
- When Chunking Expertise Schema Elaboration
Extend each chunk by linking it to what triggers it, what it means, and what to do next.
Schema elaboration
- Check What Someone Knows
"Check the facts" is a DBT emotion regulation skill for testing whether an emotion is justified by the actual situation or whether it is firing based on an interpretation — a story the mind has added. The underlying mechanism (examining the evidence for a belief) is the same as cognitive restructuring in CBT, which has strong randomized-trial support for anxiety and depression. DBT packages it specifically as a regulation tool, to be used when the emotion may not fit the facts.
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