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• I catch myself shaving down the estimate I’m about to present
• I always tell myself it’ll take this long or cost this much, and somehow it always runs over and I’m scrambling
• I build my estimate from my own optimistic story first and only glance at how long these things usually take at the very end as a sanity check
• I tend to blurt out one confident-sounding number and act like it’s solid, when honestly I have no business being that sure
• Someone asks me a question I don’t actually have the answer to, and I feel the pull to bluff something confident rather than admit the gap

Practices that may help

1. Distinguish cognitive optimism bias from strategic misrepresentation
   Recognize that some forecast inflation is genuine bias and some is deliberate spin — they require different fixes.
   Reference Class Forecasting
2. Estimate conservatively and act on the conservative number
   When uncertain, use a pessimistic estimate as your working assumption — not your best guess.
   Margin of Safety
3. Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details
   Start your forecast from the class median, then adjust — do not start from your narrative and adjust to the base rate.
   Reference Class Forecasting
4. Estimate in ranges, not point estimates
   Instead of "my estimate is 500," say "I think it is between 200 and 2000."
   Fermi Estimation
5. Say "I don’t know" when you genuinely don’t
   Admitting the limits of your knowledge signals intellectual honesty and raises long-term credibility.
   The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical
6. Discount your estimate to create a margin
   If you think something is worth X, only commit at a meaningful discount to X.
   Margin of Safety
7. Set an ambitious, defensible anchor
   Aim high enough to move the range, but keep a rationale so it isn’t dismissed.
   Anchoring Bias in Negotiation and Judgment
8. Confess when you are prepared
   If you tell people you prepared well, failure costs more — so you prepare more.
   Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup
9. Admit uncertainty out loud, especially in your own domain
   Say 'I don’t know’ clearly — it raises the quality of the conversation and your decisions.
   Circle of Competence
10. Pair confidence work with honest, accurate appraisal of your actual standing
    Confidence without accurate self-assessment is overconfidence — the goal is calibrated self-belief, not boosted belief.
    Power Posing Revisited

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