Coaching practices for I Set the Intention and Then Just Hope I'm Doing it I Never Check So a Week Later I Have No Idea Whether I Followed Through and How I'm Doing Rides Entirely on Whether I Happen to Feel Good About Myself That Day
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- I set the intention and then just hope I’m doing it
- I’m convinced I’ve been mostly sticking to it, but when I’m honest I’m really remembering my intentions, not what I actually did
- I genuinely intend to do the thing
- I genuinely mean to do it, but the day swallows it every time and “I’ll get to it” never actually turns into doing it
- I genuinely intend to do the thing, but the day just fills up and suddenly it’s night and I never found the moment
Practices that may help
- Use self-regulatory goals and progress monitoring
Set specific goals, monitor your progress toward them, and adjust based on the gap.
Social Cognitive Theory - Measure to close the feedback loop
Record the behavior so you see what you are actually doing, not what you assume.
Habit Tracking - Set if-then implementation intentions for goal behaviors
Specify when, where, and how you’ll act — not just whether you intend to.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Write when, where, and how plans for every behavioral goal
Specify exactly when, where, and how you will act — not just what you intend to do.
Action Planning - Make it obvious with an implementation intention
Pre-decide the when-and-where: “I will [behavior] at [time] in [location].”
Atomic Habits, Made Practical - Run a regular review cadence
Check in weekly and score at cycle-end so the OKRs stay alive instead of forgotten.
OKRs for People, Not Just Companies - Close with a forward-looking resolve
Choose one concrete intention to carry into tomorrow before closing the review.
The Ignatian Examen: Five Movements of Daily Review - Scheduled, recurring check-ins
Fix a standing time to report progress, not "whenever we get a chance."
Accountability Partners - Score your weekly execution
Rate the percentage of planned actions you completed each week, and aim high.
The 12 Week Year, Made Practical - Evaluate your three outcomes at day’s end
A brief end-of-day check against your three outcomes closes cognitive loops and reveals what planning adjustments to make tomorrow.
The Rule of Three for Productivity, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Implementation Intention Evening
Choose one concrete intention to carry into tomorrow before closing the review.
Close with a forward-looking resolve
- Implementation Intention Missed Day
"If I miss [behavior], then I will [specific recovery action] within [time window]."
Write a recovery if–then for when you slip
- Implementation Intention Steps
Specify exactly when, where, and how you will act — not just what you intend to do.
Write when, where, and how plans for every behavioral goal
- Implementation Intention Task Writing
Specify exactly when, where, and how you will act — not just what you intend to do.
- Intention For Tomorrow
End by choosing one concrete intention to carry into the next day.
Close with a resolve for tomorrow
- Do It Tomorrow With Friends
Mark Forster’s Do It Tomorrow (DIT) system controls workload by closing today’s task list at the start of the day and routing new requests to tomorrow, so you finish what you committed to rather than endlessly reacting. This is a practitioner system rather than a tested protocol, but its core mechanisms — closed lists, batched same-day processing, and routine work separation — align with well-supported cognitive load and attention research.
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