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- There’s one thing I genuinely want to do that I keep saying I’ll get to "next year," and it never moves because I’ve never once put real money or an actual date on it
- There’s a thing I’ve told myself I’ll do "someday" for years now
- My someday list has quietly become a dumping ground for stuff I’m just avoiding doing this week
- My list of dreams is just one long undated jumble, and because nothing on it has a "when," it all feels equally far off and equally deferrable
- I’ve got this growing pile of someday ideas I parked and never look at again, and every time I glance at it I feel a flash of guilt
Practices that may help
- Fund and schedule one item now
Put money and a date on one item before the session ends — nothing else converts intention to action as reliably.
The Bucket List Method - Distinguish genuine deferral from disguised refusal
An item that has been on the someday list for two or more years is not deferred — it has been declined without being acknowledged.
The Someday List - Protect the someday list from contamination by current work
The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
The Someday List - Categorize list items by time horizon
Sort items into near (this year), medium (this decade), and distant — then schedule the near-term ones immediately.
The Bucket List Method - Review the someday/maybe list to decide what activates
Look at your someday/maybe list and decide if anything is ready to become an active project.
The GTD Weekly Review - Give someday items a time horizon to distinguish near and far
Not all someday items are equal — some are waiting for next month, others for retirement.
The Someday List - Use the someday list as a values barometer
What you keep adding to the someday list — and what you keep not doing — reveals what you actually value versus what you think you value.
The Someday List - Activate someday items when life opens up, not just when you decide to
The someday list is not just a holding pen — it is a menu for the next season of life.
The Someday List - Time-bound — give it a deadline
Attach a date so the goal competes for attention against everything urgent.
SMART Goals That Actually Move - Identify your unstarted Quadrant 2 projects
Name the important-but-not-urgent things you keep meaning to start — they represent your real priorities.
The Eisenhower Life Audit
Related concerns
- Activate Someday Goals
An item that has been on the someday list for two or more years is not deferred — it has been declined without being acknowledged.
Distinguish genuine deferral from disguised refusal
- The Someday List During A Big Change
The someday list is not just a holding pen — it is a menu for the next season of life.
Activate someday items when life opens up, not just when you decide to
- The Someday List For My Teenager
Not all someday items are equal — some are waiting for next month, others for retirement.
Give someday items a time horizon to distinguish near and far
- The Someday List With Friends
A someday list (popularized in David Allen’s Getting Things Done framework and common in life-design practice) is a trusted place to park valuable ideas, projects, and desires that are not actionable now without losing them or letting them occupy mental RAM. Its value depends entirely on the reviews being regular enough that you trust the list, and honest enough that it stays current. There is limited formal research on this specific tool, but the underlying capture-and-clarify mechanism is consistent with cognitive offloading research.
- The Someday List With My Partner
A shared list is harder to defer and more motivating than a solo one — and the experiences themselves are richer.
Create a shared bucket list with people you love
- When The Eisenhower Life Audit Identify Quadrant Two Projects
Name the important-but-not-urgent things you keep meaning to start — they represent your real priorities.
Identify your unstarted Quadrant 2 projects
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