Coaching practices for I Know There Are a Couple of Things I'm Genuinely Good at but I Use Them Just to Get by They Don't Connect to Anything Bigger Than My Own to Do List and I Want What I'm Best at to Actually Serve Something That Matters
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- I know there are a couple of things I’m genuinely good at, but I use them just to get by
- My life is full of perfectly fine, perfectly worthwhile things
- I’ve been chasing things that please me and still feel empty, and I’m realizing what’s missing is the sense that any of it actually matters to anyone else
- I’m doing twelve things at a passable level and none of them well, and I’m starting to think the answer isn’t to try harder across all of them but to do far fewer and actually be good at those.
- I do the work and I genuinely can’t see who it’s for or whether it matters to anyone
Practices that may help
- Bridge from signature strengths to purpose
Identify the top two or three things you do better than most people and trace how they can serve something larger.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Consider the cost of mediocre vs excellent allocation
Ask not just "is this worthwhile?" but "is this the best use of this resource right now?"
Opportunity Cost Thinking: What You Give Up When You Choose - The contribution test (what the world needs)
Look for where your effort visibly helps someone, not just where it pleases you.
Ikigai, Honestly Explained - Less but better
Channel your effort into a few vital things done excellently rather than many done adequately.
Essentialism, Made Practical - Connect the work to a purpose beyond yourself
Tie effort to something larger — the "why" that outlasts the reward.
Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose - Contribution mapping
Trace the visible chain from your daily work to a person or outcome that benefits.
Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day - Meaningful engagement
Spend regular time doing something that generates both positive emotion and a sense of purpose.
Building Positive Emotions, Made Practical - Review your goal hierarchy to ensure lower goals serve higher ones
When daily tasks are disconnected from values, motivation mysteriously evaporates — close the hierarchy gap.
Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) - Build a goal hierarchy from distant aim to proximal step
Link the immediate daily task to the long-range goal so effort on the small thing feels worth it.
Goal Setting Theory, Made Practical - Identify what drives your economic engine specifically
Name the specific mechanism by which your work creates value that the market will pay for — not just a field, but a mechanism.
The Hedgehog Concept
Related concerns
- Connect Tasks To Purpose
Keep a physical object associated with your deepest purpose visible in your workspace.
Value-object anchoring
- Finding Purpose Exercise
Validate the why by using it as a filter for choices, then refining where it doesn’t fit.
Test your why against real decisions
- Purpose Through Contribution
Trace the visible chain from your daily work to a person or outcome that benefits.
Contribution mapping
- Sense Of Purpose
Tie effort to something larger — the "why" that outlasts the reward.
Connect the work to a purpose beyond yourself
- Sense Of Purpose Exercise
Validate the why by using it as a filter for choices, then refining where it doesn’t fit.
- When Drive Daniel Pink Connect To Purpose
Tie effort to something larger — the "why" that outlasts the reward.
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