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- Everything I enjoy eventually gets turned into a side hustle or something to optimize and post about, and the moment I start measuring it the fun drains out
- I can’t just enjoy anything anymore
- Everything I make now has to justify itself
- There was this hobby I genuinely loved until I started tracking it and tying rewards to it, and now the spark is just gone
- My whole life has narrowed down to work and then collapsing in front of a screen
Practices that may help
- Protect your play zone from performance pressure
Designate activities that stay purely intrinsic — never evaluated, rewarded, or tracked.
The Overjustification Effect: When Rewards Kill Motivation - Treating rest as worthwhile in itself
Allow leisure that has no payoff, instead of optimizing every hour for productivity.
Four Thousand Weeks, Made Practical - Keep side projects and play
Protect a low-stakes project with no goal — the “waste” is where the real ideas surface.
Steal Like an Artist, in Practice - Protect intrinsic motivation from over-justification
Be careful with rewards on things you already enjoy — they can undermine the enjoyment.
Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable - Protect time for deep play
Maintain a serious non-work interest that demands real skill and attention.
Deliberate Rest - Link developing interests to a sense of contribution
Interest that connects to helping others or solving real problems becomes more sustaining than interest that is purely self-contained.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Selectively opt out of the attention economy’s highest-cost products
Identify the two or three platforms extracting the most attention for the least genuine return and remove them entirely.
The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It - The contribution test (what the world needs)
Look for where your effort visibly helps someone, not just where it pleases you.
Ikigai, Honestly Explained - Follow genuine interest, not strategic interest
Pursue the thing that genuinely excites you — even if you cannot explain why or see how it fits.
The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making - Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy
Having more than one developing interest is not a sign of lost focus — it’s how passion develops for many people.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love
Related concerns
- How To Keep A Hobby Enjoyable
Designate activities that stay purely intrinsic — never evaluated, rewarded, or tracked.
Protect your play zone from performance pressure
- When Four Thousand Weeks Rest As An End
Allow leisure that has no payoff, instead of optimizing every hour for productivity.
Treating rest as worthwhile in itself
- When The Overjustification Effect Recover From Overjustification
Intrinsic interest that has been undermined can often be partially recovered by removing the reward and reconnecting to original reasons.
Recover intrinsic interest after it has been crowded out
- How Do I Deal With Burnout And Regain My Passion For Work Or Hobbies
Intrinsic interest that has been undermined can often be partially recovered by removing the reward and reconnecting to original reasons.
- Purposeless Hobbies
Allow leisure that has no payoff, instead of optimizing every hour for productivity.
- When Broaden And Build Play And Creativity Access
Play is not time away from serious work — it is the state in which the broadened thinking that solves serious problems is most available.
Protect play and creativity as broadening-state generators
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