Coaching practices for After a Brutal Day My Body is Still Buzzing with All This Fight or Flight Charge and Nowhere for it to Go So I Just Sit There Wired and Restless Every Cell Wants to Bolt or Fight and I Keep it Pinned to a Chair Instead
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- After a brutal day my body is still buzzing with all this fight-or-flight charge and nowhere for it to go, so I just sit there wired and restless
- I’m so wound up I can’t sit still
- I feel like I’ve floated up out of my body and I’m all stuck in my head
- When my body starts to tremble or shake or wants to move, I instantly clamp down and hold it in because it feels embarrassing or out of control
- When I’m wound up or stuck I just sit there marinating in the feeling, when every cell of me is itching to move
Practices that may help
- Physical movement to discharge the stress response
The single most effective way to complete the stress cycle is vigorous physical activity.
The Stress Response Cycle: How to Discharge Stress, Not Just Remove the Stressor - Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity - Physical anchoring (feet, contact, pressure)
Press your feet down and feel your contact with the chair or ground to anchor into the body.
Grounding Techniques for Acute Distress - Allow the body to complete its response
Make room for spontaneous shaking, trembling, deep breaths, or movement that wants to happen.
Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained - Move and use rhythm to shift state
Walking, swaying, drumming, dancing — rhythmic, whole-body movement to discharge and reset arousal.
The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained - Deliberate orienting after a stressful event to complete the cycle
After a difficult experience, do a slow orienting exercise to help your nervous system register that it is now over.
The Orienting Response, Made Practical - Come down from hyperarousal
When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone - Ground and orient to the present
Use feet, contact, and a slow look around the room to re-anchor in the safe here-and-now.
Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained - Regulate the body before you process the story
When you are activated, settle the body first — insight cannot land on a flooded nervous system.
The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained - Pendulation (move between activation and calm)
Oscillate attention between a charged sensation and a place of safety or ease in the body.
Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
Related concerns
- When Tipp Skill Intense Exercise
Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
- Trembling After Stress
Allow or induce spontaneous shaking after stress to help the nervous system discharge pent-up activation.
Shaking and trembling to discharge activation
- When Allostatic Load Exercise For Load Reduction
Regular moderate exercise trains the stress-response system to activate and recover efficiently, reducing the accumulation of load.
Use moderate-intensity exercise as a hormetic stress
- When Self Soothing Physical Self Soothing
Use touch, warmth, rocking, or breath to directly calm the nervous system.
Physical self-soothing
- When Somatic Experiencing Pendulation
Oscillate attention between a charged sensation and a place of safety or ease in the body.
Pendulation (move between activation and calm)
- When The Body Keeps The Score Rhythmic Movement
Walking, swaying, drumming, dancing — rhythmic, whole-body movement to discharge and reset arousal.
Move and use rhythm to shift state
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