Coaching practices for I've Thrown Everything at My Sleep Melatonin Blackout Curtains Cutting Screens and Nothing Sticks and I'm Starting to Think I'm Treating the Wrong Problem Because I Don't Actually Understand What's Broken
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- I’ve thrown everything at my sleep
- I’ve already cut the caffeine, dimmed the lights, bought the blackout curtains and the cooling mattress
- I bought the blue-light glasses everyone swears by and changed nothing else, and my sleep is exactly as bad
- I keep trying the obvious fixes
- There’s no point where I actually put the screen down for the night
Practices that may help
- Use the two-process model to diagnose your specific sleep problem
Identify whether your sleep issue is a Process S problem, a Process C problem, or both — because the fixes are different.
The Two-Process Model of Sleep - Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure
Get the basics right (light, caffeine, temperature, schedule) but do not expect them alone to fix insomnia.
CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical - Don’t over-rely on blue-light glasses
Treat blue-light-blocking glasses as a weak, optional add-on, not the fix.
The Digital Sunset - Learn the two-process model of sleep
Understanding how sleep pressure and the circadian clock interact removes the mystery from why sleep is unpredictable.
CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical - Set a screen cutoff time
Pick a consistent hour to put screens away and protect the wind-down window.
The Digital Sunset - Dim your evening light
Lower overall light intensity at night — the lever that actually moves your clock.
The Digital Sunset - Dim lights for the 60 minutes before bed
Drop overall light intensity in your home in the last hour before sleep to let melatonin rise undisturbed.
The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep - Dim light in the evening
Lower light intensity in the last hours before bed so the clock can wind down.
Circadian Rhythm Optimization - Keep a strict, consistent wake time
Anchor the same wake time every day regardless of how much sleep you got the night before.
Stimulus Control for Sleep - Set a screen curfew 60-90 minutes before sleep
All screens off 60-90 minutes before intended sleep time — including television.
The Phone-Free Bedroom
Related concerns
- Blue Light And Sleep
Treat blue-light-blocking glasses as a weak, optional add-on, not the fix.
Don’t over-rely on blue-light glasses
- Blue Light Sleep
All screens off 60-90 minutes before intended sleep time — including television.
Set a screen curfew 60-90 minutes before sleep
- Bright Line Rules When None Beats Some Before Bed
A bright-line rule is a clear, unambiguous limit with no judgment calls — "no alcohol on weekdays" rather than "drink less." They are easier to keep than willpower-by-degrees because they remove the in-the-moment negotiation where self-control breaks down. The idea draws on real research into decision fatigue, ego depletion debates, and the difficulty of moderation, though "bright-line rule" itself is a heuristic borrowed from law.
- Dim Lights Before Bed
Drop overall light intensity in your home in the last hour before sleep to let melatonin rise undisturbed.
Dim lights for the 60 minutes before bed
- Do Blue Light Glasses Work
Treat blue-light-blocking glasses as a weak, optional add-on, not the fix.
- Melatonin Blue Light Phone
All screens off 60-90 minutes before intended sleep time — including television.
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