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  • My lists have gone stale and I’ve stopped trusting them, so I’m back to carrying everything in my head and dreading Monday
  • I dive into Monday with no sense of what the week is actually for, so I end up chasing whatever shouts loudest each day and the two or three things that would make the week a real success never get a protected slot.
  • I had a system I trusted, but I let the lists go stale and now I don’t quite believe them anymore
  • My weeks get hijacked by whatever lands in my inbox first thing Monday, and by Friday I’ve just been reacting the whole time
  • Another week just vanished and the few things I actually meant to do never happened

Practices that may help

  1. Do a brief weekly review and planning session
    Each week, review what happened, clear the decks, and commit to next week’s MITs.
    Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical
  2. Weekly planning
    Set the week’s priorities and rough blocks before the week starts.
    Time Blocking, Made Practical
  3. Run a weekly review
    Once a week, process inboxes and review every project and list to keep the system trusted.
    Getting Things Done (GTD), Made Practical
  4. Set a Monday Vision each week
    Every Monday, name three outcomes for the week before the week’s reactive demands crowd them out.
    Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
  5. Identify and schedule big rocks at the start of each week
    On Monday morning (or Sunday evening), name three "big rocks" and block calendar time for each before anything else.
    Big Rocks First
  6. Run a weekly preview before the week begins
    On Sunday evening, scan the incoming week against your ideal week template and protect what matters.
    Ideal Week Design
  7. Apply RPM at the weekly level
    Run the result-purpose-MAP sequence on your week each Sunday to set directional focus before Monday begins.
    Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical
  8. Weekly matrix review
    Re-sort your tasks weekly so the quadrants reflect reality, not last week’s assumptions.
    The Eisenhower Matrix, Made Practical
  9. Run a quarterly focus review to refresh the lists
    Revisit and rebuild both lists every quarter — priorities shift, and so should the lists.
    Warren Buffett’s Two-List Strategy
  10. Plan from roles and goals, not from tasks
    Before listing tasks, list your key roles this week and name one meaningful goal for each.
    Big Rocks First

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