Coaching practices for Who Owns the Problem

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve been killing myself trying to fix this, and it’s slowly dawning on me that the lever isn’t even in my hands
• My team dropped the ball again and my first instinct is to point at them or at circumstances
• We leave the meeting all nodding that "we’ll get that done," and then next week it’s still untouched because everyone quietly assumed someone else had it
• When something goes wrong my first move is to find whose fault it was, and being right about that leaves me stuck
• I handed this to "the team" without naming one clear owner, and now everyone assumes someone else has it

Practices that may help

1. Map who actually owns the problem
   Identify whose problem it truly is before investing in a solution — the framing often changes when you name the real owner.
   Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
2. Take extreme ownership
   When the team fails, the leader looks first at what the leader did or failed to do.
   Extreme Ownership, Made Practical
3. Assign one owner to every Action Step
   Any Action Step shared by multiple owners effectively has no owner — every step needs exactly one named person responsible.
   The Action Method, Made Practical
4. Take extreme ownership of outcomes — even ones that aren’t your fault
   Claiming ownership of everything in your domain — even external failures — is the fastest path to fixing them.
   Discipline Equals Freedom: Jocko Willink's Framework
5. Set clear, single-point accountability
   One named owner, an agreed standard, and a check-in cadence set up front — not nagging.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
6. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
   Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
7. Separate the person from the problem
   Treat the conflict as a problem you face together, not a contest you fight each other.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
8. Give the work back without abandoning people
   Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
9. Separate the doer (R) from the owner (A)
   The person who does the work is often not the person who owns the outcome — make this explicit.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
10. Move to problem-solving only after understanding is mutual
    Problem-solving before mutual understanding produces solutions neither party owns.
    Looping for Understanding (Difficult Conversations)

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