Coaching practices for Whole Brain Child Movement

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • My little one gets so wound up or so shut down that talking goes nowhere
  • My child reacts to everything on pure impulse and never seems to stop and think how the other kid feels, and I want to actually build that thinking-and-considering muscle during our good calm moments, not just keep firefighting once they’ve already lost it.
  • My kid has started hiding mistakes and bracing like they’re in trouble before I’ve even said anything, and I think it’s because my first reaction to a spill or a broken thing is always the accusation
  • Something scared my child
  • My kid is mid-meltdown and I’m kneeling there explaining why they can’t have it, getting more reasonable while they get more wild, and none of my logic is landing

Practices that may help

  1. Use physical movement to shift the nervous system state
    When the child is stuck in a heightened state, movement can shift the physiological baseline faster than words.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  2. The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
    Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson's Whole-Brain Child framework draws on neuroscience to explain why children behave as they do and offers strategies that work with the developing brain rather than against it. The core insight is that children's emotional storms reflect genuine neurological immaturity — particularly in the prefrontal cortex — not moral deficiency. The practices are clinically endorsed and mechanistically grounded; RCTs of the Whole-Brain Child program specifically are limited.
  3. Engage the upstairs brain through curiosity and play
    Ask questions that require the child to think, imagine, or consider another perspective.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  4. Cultivate a "yes brain": curiosity, courage, and resilience over reactivity
    Respond to the child’s world with curiosity and openness rather than threat and control.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  5. Name it to tame it: tell the story of the big feeling
    Help the child narrate what happened and how it felt — storytelling is brain integration.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  6. Connect emotionally before you redirect or teach
    The downstairs brain has to be acknowledged before the upstairs brain can hear anything.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  7. Build mindsight by reflecting inner experience
    Describe your own inner experience in everyday conversation to build the child’s "mind-seeing" capacity.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  8. Intention and visualization in qigong
    Mentally directing awareness to moving energy through a region while moving amplifies the proprioceptive signal and focuses attention effectively.
    Qigong: Evidence-Based Mind-Body Practice
  9. Follow the child’s lead completely during special time
    Let the child decide what you do, how long you stay, and when you move on.
    Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
  10. Choose body areas to attend to with care
    Start body attention from the periphery (hands, feet) and only move toward the core if peripheral areas feel safe.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical

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