Coaching practices for Why a Good Strategy Feels Wrong

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Everyone swears this approach is the right one and on paper it clearly is, but it just feels subtly off when I do it, like it’s cut against my grain
• I made a call that turned out badly and now I feel like an idiot for it
• I’ve decided the lesson from this success is “focus narrow” or “go big”
• I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was the right move with what I knew, and I let myself off the hook for reckless ones that happened to work out
• A rule of thumb that served me brilliantly in one area keeps failing me somewhere else, and I can’t figure out why

Practices that may help

1. Align your strategy with your regulatory focus for "regulatory fit"
   When your strategy matches your regulatory focus, the task feels more right and performance improves.
   Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
2. Judge decisions by the process, not the result
   A good decision that produces a bad outcome is still a good decision.
   Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
3. Steelman the strategy opposite to the successful one
   Before adopting a lesson from a success story, build the best possible case for the opposite approach.
   Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
4. Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
   A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
   Thinking in Bets
5. Match your heuristic to the structure of the environment
   A good rule works because it matches the statistical regularities of the environment — wrong environment, wrong rule.
   Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking
6. Identify whether defensive pessimism or optimism fits your anxiety profile
   Defensive pessimism works best for high-anxiety people — applying it to low-anxiety people, or optimism to high-anxiety people, tends to backfire.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
7. Prefer positions with optionality over positions with precision
   In uncertain environments, prioritize options to pivot over optimized fixed positions.
   The Ludic Fallacy: When You Mistake Real Life for a Game
8. Ask the workability question
   Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
9. Check whether your judgment is tracking affect, not the target attribute
   When a decision "just feels right," ask whether the feeling is about the actual question or about your current emotional state.
   Attribute Substitution: When Your Brain Answers a Different Question
10. Simulate the adversary’s response to your move
    Assign someone to genuinely think and plan as your competitor, not just describe them.
    Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail

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