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• Every time I try to hand something off it boomerangs back to me with questions, or it comes back done wrong, so I’ve quietly decided it’s faster to just do it myself
• I hand something off thinking I was clear, and then they wait around for my go-ahead while I assumed they’d just run with it
• Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
• When I finally do hand something off, it’s always the dull scraps I don’t want, and I cling to everything interesting
• My team only ever gets the leftover scraps from me, and it shows

Practices that may help

1. Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
   Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
   The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation
2. Name the delegation level explicitly at the start of every task
   State clearly whether you want a recommendation, a decision with notification, or a decision without notification — before the work begins.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
3. Resist upward (reverse) delegation
   Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
4. Match the task to the person
   Delegate based on the fit between the task’s demands and the person’s skill, growth needs, and capacity.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
5. Use delegation as a development tool
   Assign Q3 tasks to team members who are ready to stretch — and treat the learning curve as the point.
   The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation
6. Debrief to grow capability, not just to grade
   Close the loop with a learning-focused review so the next delegation needs less of you.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
7. Match the delegation level to the person’s current competence and confidence
   Over-delegate to someone who isn’t ready and they fail; under-delegate and they stagnate.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
8. Push recommendations up, not problems
   Require reports to bring a recommendation alongside any problem — it’s a delegation practice, not just a time-saver.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
9. Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
   When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
10. Transfer authority with the responsibility
    Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
    Effective Delegation, Made Practical

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