Coaching practices for Why Do I Crave a Habit

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  • I keep telling myself I do it for the obvious reason
  • I assumed my afternoon snack run was about hunger, so I swapped in healthier snacks and the urge didn’t budge
  • The craving hits and it feels like it’ll never let up unless I give in
  • My bad habits run on autopilot but the good one I’m trying to build never feels automatic
  • I keep reaching for the virtuous swap

Practices that may help

  1. Diagnose the real reward the habit is delivering
    Run experiments to discover what craving the habit actually satisfies — it is often not obvious.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  2. Isolate the real reward by experimenting
    Test different rewards to find what craving the habit is actually satisfying.
    The Power of Habit, Made Practical
  3. Extinguish conditioned cravings through cue exposure without response
    Repeatedly expose yourself to a craving cue without performing the associated behavior to weaken the conditioned urge.
    Classical Conditioning and Habit Triggers
  4. Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
    Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  5. Choose a replacement that delivers the same reward
    The new routine must satisfy the original craving, or the old one snaps back.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  6. Identify your cue
    Pin down the exact trigger that fires the habit before you can do anything about the habit.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  7. Assess the function of the habit before trying to stop it
    What does the habit give you? The competing response needs to meet the same underlying need.
    Habit Reversal Training, Made Practical
  8. Keep the cue and reward; swap only the routine
    Replace the behavior that delivers the craving with a different one that delivers the same satisfaction.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  9. Diagnose the cue and the real reward first
    You cannot substitute a routine until you know what trigger fires it and what payoff it delivers.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  10. Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
    Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
    The Power of Habit, Made Practical

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