Coaching practices for Why Do I Shake When Stressed

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• Right after something scary or intense my hands and legs literally start to tremble, and my instinct is to clamp it down and act composed
• When my body starts to tremble or shake or wants to move, I instantly clamp down and hold it in because it feels embarrassing or out of control
• I’m wound so tight my shoulders are up around my ears and the tension is just locked in my body
• When I finally calm down after something scary my hands start shaking and I always clamp down on it because it’s embarrassing
• When I’m in the thick of something stressful I go quiet and tell myself I’ll call people once I’ve handled it

Practices that may help

1. Shaking and trembling to discharge activation
   Allow or induce spontaneous shaking after stress to help the nervous system discharge pent-up activation.
   The Stress Response Cycle: How to Discharge Stress, Not Just Remove the Stressor
2. Allow the body to complete its response
   Make room for spontaneous shaking, trembling, deep breaths, or movement that wants to happen.
   Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
3. Qigong shaking practice
   Gentle full-body shaking releases chronic muscular tension held in postural muscles and engages the vibration-based stress-release mechanism.
   Qigong: Evidence-Based Mind-Body Practice
4. Allow micromovements to discharge activation
   Let small, involuntary trembling or movement complete the interrupted survival response.
   The Freeze Response and How to Thaw It
5. Reach out when stressed, not after
   Contact a trusted person during stress, not only once it has passed — the oxytocin release is the active coping mechanism.
   Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical
6. Reappraise anxiety as excitement before high-stakes performance
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is the same, the performance effect is not.
   Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical
7. Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
8. Physical movement to discharge the stress response
   The single most effective way to complete the stress cycle is vigorous physical activity.
   The Stress Response Cycle: How to Discharge Stress, Not Just Remove the Stressor
9. Building stress resilience through cold
   Repeated controlled cold as a way to practice staying calm under acute stress.
   Cold Exposure, Without the Hype
10. Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
    Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
    TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity

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