Coaching practices for Work Life Balance Seasons

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  • The things that used to recharge me
  • I honestly can’t tell where I am in my own life right now
  • The seasons turn and I barely register it
  • Some of my closest friendships feel like we’re living in different worlds now, and I feel guilty for drifting
  • Everything that used to give my life shape suddenly feels hollow and the new thing hasn’t arrived yet, so I’m stuck in this disorienting in-between

Practices that may help

  1. Seasons of Life
    The seasons-of-life framework treats adult development as a sequence of distinct phases — each with its own natural demands, appropriate priorities, and transition challenges. Drawing on developmental psychology (Levinson, Erikson, Sheehy) and practical life-design work, it argues that straining against your current season (trying to do spring work in autumn, or refusing to accept a transition) produces more distress than the season itself.
  2. Match your self-care to what your current season demands
    Spring requires stimulus and novelty; autumn requires depth and consolidation — what restores you changes.
    Seasons of Life
  3. Identify your current season honestly
    Name the season you are actually in — not the one you want to be in or the one others expect.
    Seasons of Life
  4. Seasonal attunement
    Mark the changing of seasons not just as calendar events but as emotional and aesthetic transitions worth noticing.
    Mono no Aware: The Pathos of Things
  5. Review whether your key relationships are season-appropriate
    Some relationships that sustained you in a past season may be misaligned with your current one — and vice versa.
    Seasons of Life
  6. Navigate season transitions — the gap is normal and necessary
    The confusion and loss of meaning between seasons is structural, not personal failure.
    Seasons of Life
  7. Plan in seasons, not permanent allocations
    Think of burner settings as seasonal, not fixed — recalibrate at defined intervals.
    Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs
  8. The Wheel of Life, Made Practical
    The Wheel of Life is a coaching tool that maps satisfaction across multiple life domains (career, health, relationships, finances, and others) as a visual "wheel" to show where life is well-rounded and where it is flat. It is widely used in coaching but lacks independent clinical trial evidence; its value is as a structured self-awareness and conversation-starter tool rather than a therapeutic intervention.
  9. Map your Hot Spots to see where you invest your life
    Define the key life areas (Hot Spots) that matter most and allocate attention across them intentionally.
    Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
  10. Name which burners are actually on
    Honestly assess how much fuel each of the four domains is receiving right now.
    Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs

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