Coaching practices for Worried About Not Sleeping

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
• The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
• The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up
• It’s 2am and the clock has become a countdown
• The second I’m not asleep by a certain hour my mind starts screaming that tomorrow is ruined, that I have to get my eight hours or I’ll fall apart

Practices that may help

1. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
   Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
2. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
   Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
3. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
   Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
   CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
4. Challenge catastrophic thoughts about sleep
   Identify and test the beliefs that turn a bad night into a disaster story.
   CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
5. Challenge the beliefs that make insomnia self-perpetuating
   Identify and revise the catastrophic beliefs about sleep that amplify arousal at bedtime.
   Sleep Restriction Therapy
6. Stop watching the clock during the night
   Remove or hide the clock to stop the "calculating how much sleep I have left" loop that activates the brain.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
7. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
   Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
8. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
   Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
9. Separate the science from the overstatement
   Keep the reliable sleep practices; hold the scariest popular claims loosely.
   Why We Sleep, Translated Into Practice
10. Box breathing as a sleep-onset tool
    Use the equal-cadence pattern in bed to lower arousal and shorten the time to sleep.
    Box Breathing, Made Practical

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