Coaching practices for Worry Exposure During a Big Change

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• When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again
• Before I can even start facing my fears head-on, I have to stop them ambushing me at every hour
• Even when I face the thing and nothing bad happens, my mind just shrugs it off as "I got lucky this time" and the dread stays exactly the same
• There’s one outcome I’m so terrified of that I flinch away from even picturing it fully, so it just lurks at the edge of my mind forever with all its power intact
• I’m convinced that if I send this message or speak up in the meeting, people will think I’m incompetent

Practices that may help

1. Worry Exposure, Made Practical
   Worry exposure, developed by Thomas Borkovec as part of his CBT for generalized anxiety disorder, reverses the usual avoidance strategy: instead of suppressing or distracting from worry, you deliberately face the feared scenario in detail, allowing the anxiety to peak and then naturally subside. It is a form of imaginal exposure applied specifically to chronic worry. The evidence base is the broader CBT-GAD literature, in which worry-exposure elements appear as part of well-supported treatment packages.
2. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
   After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
3. Worry stimulus control: confine worry to a designated time
   Schedule a 20-minute daily "worry period" and postpone all worry outside it.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
4. Set realistic expectations before each exposure
   Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
5. Imaginal exposure to the feared scenario
   Spend 15-20 minutes deliberately and vividly imagining the worst-case outcome, allowing anxiety to peak and subside.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
6. Test worry predictions with small behavioural experiments
   Treat a feared outcome as a hypothesis and design a small real-world test.
   The Worry Tree
7. Distinguish actionable from non-actionable worries
   Triage each worry: is there one thing you could actually do about it? If yes, plan it. If no, that's the exposure target.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
8. Identify the core fear beneath the worry chain
   Follow each worry downstream to find the primary feared outcome it is ultimately about.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
9. Uncertainty Tolerance Training
   Practice tolerating small uncertainties to build the capacity to sit with uncertainty without worrying.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
10. Build tolerance for uncertainty through graduated exposure
    Deliberately practise leaving small things unresolved to expand your uncertainty window.
    The Worry Tree

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