Separate Adversity, Belief, and Consequence

Notice that your feelings follow from your belief about an event, not from the event itself.

Why it works

People assume adversity directly causes their emotional reaction (A → C), so the reaction feels inevitable. The ABC model inserts the belief (A → B → C), revealing that the *interpretation* drives the feeling. Seeing the belief as a separate, editable link is what makes changing the consequence possible.

How to do it

1. Write the Adversity (what objectively happened).
2. Write the Belief (the explanation you told yourself about it).
3. Write the Consequence (what you felt and did) — then check whether the belief, not the event, produced it.

Evidence

The ABC model derives from Albert Ellis’s rational-emotive behavior therapy and underpins the cognitive model of emotion that CBT — with strong randomized-trial support — is built on. (rct)

The model is a clinical framework; it isolates the belief but doesn’t by itself guarantee the belief is wrong.

Sources

• Ellis, rational-emotive behavior therapy (ABC model); the cognitive model underlying CBT

Common mistake

Collapsing belief into adversity ("he ignored me, that means he hates me") and treating the interpretation as part of the event — which hides the editable link.