Savoring positive experiences
Deliberately prolong and deepen good moments instead of letting them slip past.
Why it works
Pleasant experiences are often over before we register them because attention moves on fast. Savoring — pausing to notice, dwell on, and share a good moment — extends the positive emotion and lays down a richer memory you can revisit. It directly targets PERMA’s positive-emotion pillar by harvesting more well-being from experiences you’re already having.
How to do it
- When something good happens, pause and consciously take it in for a few extra seconds.
- Heighten it: name what you appreciate, share it with someone, or take a mental snapshot.
- Later, deliberately recall the moment to re-experience some of the feeling.
Evidence
Savoring is a studied positive-psychology construct, with experimental and intervention research associating savoring strategies with higher positive emotion and life satisfaction. (rct)
Evidence is generally positive but the literature is smaller and more varied than for gratitude exercises; some savoring strategies work better than others.
Common mistake
Dampening instead of savoring — immediately worrying it won’t last or rushing to the next thing, which cuts the positive emotion short rather than extending it.
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More practices for Positive Psychology, Made Practical
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- The gratitude visit
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- Audit your life against PERMA
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- Deliberate acts of kindness
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