Name what the emotion is doing in your body
Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
Why it works
Affect labeling — putting a feeling into words — engages prefrontal processing and is associated with reduced amygdala activation. Specifically naming bodily sensations ("tightening in my throat, heat in my chest") is a form of labeling that creates observational distance from the physiological event. The emotion becomes something you are watching rather than something you are inside of.
How to do it
- Locate the emotion in the body: scan from head to toe.
- Describe the physical sensations aloud or in writing: size, quality, temperature, movement.
- Track how the sensations change from moment to moment — they are always moving if you watch closely.
- Continue for 60–120 seconds without interpreting or narrating.
Evidence
Affect labeling is supported by fMRI research showing reduced amygdala activation when feelings are put into words. Somatic tracking — specifically attending to body sensations — is also a component of several evidence-based therapies for anxiety. Torre & Lieberman (2018) frame affect labeling as a form of implicit emotion regulation, explaining why simply naming the sensation dampens its intensity without any deliberate effort to control it. (observational)
These findings are from controlled conditions; the effect on intense, real-world emotion is less studied. Somatic tracking can increase anxiety for some people before it decreases it.
Sources
- Lieberman et al. (2007), "Putting feelings into words," Psychological Science
- Lieberman, M. D., Eisenberger, N. I., Crockett, M. J., Tom, S. M., Pfeifer, J. H., & Way, B. M. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychological Science, 18(5), 421-428.
- Torre, J. B., & Lieberman, M. D. (2018). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling as implicit emotion regulation. Emotion Review, 10(2), 116-124.
Common mistake
Getting absorbed into the story triggered by each sensation ("my chest is tight because he said that") rather than staying with the raw physical observation.
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