Use relaxation training before bed
Practice a structured relaxation technique to lower physiological arousal before sleep.
Why it works
A key perpetuating factor of insomnia is elevated physiological arousal at bedtime — higher heart rate, muscle tension, and cortisol. Relaxation techniques (progressive muscle relaxation, diaphragmatic breathing, imagery) directly target this, activating the parasympathetic nervous system and creating the low-arousal state that sleep onset requires.
How to do it
- Choose one technique (progressive muscle relaxation, 4-7-8 breathing, or guided imagery) and practice it nightly for at least two weeks.
- Practice in a chair or on the floor before getting into bed, so the bed remains a sleep cue.
- Treat early sessions as skill practice, not sleep medicine — the benefit builds with repetition.
Evidence
Relaxation training has RCT support as a component of CBT-I, and progressive muscle relaxation in particular has been studied as a standalone insomnia intervention with positive results. (rct)
Effect sizes for relaxation alone are smaller than for sleep restriction or combined CBT-I; it is most powerful as one component of the full protocol.
Sources
- Morin et al. (1994), meta-analysis of nonpharmacological treatments for insomnia, JAMA
Common mistake
Practicing relaxation in bed, which risks turning it into another wakefulness activity in the place that should be reserved only for sleep.
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More practices for CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
- Sleep restriction therapy
Temporarily compress your time in bed to match how much you actually sleep, then expand it as efficiency improves.
- Challenge catastrophic thoughts about sleep
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- Keep a daily sleep diary
Track sleep and wake times daily to reveal patterns and benchmark treatment progress.
- Learn the two-process model of sleep
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- Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
- Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure
Get the basics right (light, caffeine, temperature, schedule) but do not expect them alone to fix insomnia.
Related concepts
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- Sleep Hygiene That Actually Moves the Needle
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- Why We Sleep, Translated Into Practice
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