Coaching practices for Align Work and Life

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• What I believe my work is for and what I believe my life is for seem to be quietly pulling in opposite directions, so every big choice feels like a coin-flip
• There’s a low, constant friction between what I believe matters and what my job actually asks of me, and it quietly drains me and bleeds into everything else
• I keep telling myself family comes first, but when I actually look at where my hours went this week it’s almost all work
• All my energy pours into work while my body, my friendships, the fun stuff just quietly get nothing
• I tell myself my family comes first, but when I look at where my week actually went it was almost all work, and I can’t square the story I tell with where the hours really landed.

Practices that may help

1. Write your Workview and Lifeview
   Articulate what work is for and what life is for — then check whether they point the same way.
   Designing Your Life, Made Practical
2. Right livelihood — ethical audit of how you earn and spend your time
   Ask whether your livelihood causes harm to yourself or others — and where friction between your values and your work lives.
   The Noble Eightfold Path as a Practical Life Framework
3. Audit work hours against your stated priorities
   Compare how you actually spend your time this week against what you say matters most.
   The Regret of the Dying
4. Map your Hot Spots to see where you invest your life
   Define the key life areas (Hot Spots) that matter most and allocate attention across them intentionally.
   Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
5. Name which burners are actually on
   Honestly assess how much fuel each of the four domains is receiving right now.
   Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs
6. Use a 15-minute end-of-day planning buffer to close the day’s loops
   Before leaving work, take 15 minutes to list tomorrow’s priorities and explicitly close today’s open loops.
   The Zeigarnik Effect: How Unfinished Tasks Occupy Your Mind
7. Ikigai quarterly review
   Every three months, map the intersection of what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for.
   Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day
8. Assign a theme to each day of the week
   Decide in advance which type of work each weekday is for and protect those assignments.
   Theme Days, Made Practical
9. Drain the shallows
   Aggressively limit and batch low-value shallow work so it doesn’t crowd out deep work.
   Deep Work, Made Practical
10. Build energy rituals that automate oscillation
    Small, precise routines at transition points remove the decision cost of shifting between engagement and recovery.
    The Energy Audit

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