Write your Workview and Lifeview
Articulate what work is for and what life is for — then check whether they point the same way.
Why it works
Most direction-conflict is two unstated philosophies pulling against each other: a Workview (why you work, what good work is) and a Lifeview (what a life is for). Writing both makes the collision visible and gives you a stable yardstick to evaluate options against, so choices stop feeling like coin-flips and start being measured against something you actually believe.
How to do it
- Write a short Workview: what work means to you and what makes it worthwhile beyond money.
- Write a short Lifeview: what a meaningful life consists of and where work fits in it.
- Read them side by side and mark where they conflict — that tension is the thing to resolve.
Evidence
This is a values-clarification exercise, and clarifying and acting on personal values is a well-supported component of acceptance-based therapies. The Workview/Lifeview framing is Designing Your Life’s particular packaging of it. A meta-analysis by A-Tjak and colleagues (2015) of 39 randomized trials (1,821 patients) found acceptance and commitment therapy — of which values clarification is a core component — outperformed controls with a moderate effect (Hedges’ g = 0.57), anchoring the clinical strength of the values work this exercise draws on. (mechanistic)
Values work has clinical support broadly; the specific two-document format is a teaching structure rather than a separately validated intervention.
Sources
Common mistake
Writing what you think you should value (or what sounds noble) rather than what you actually do, so the yardstick measures a stranger’s life.
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More practices for Designing Your Life, Made Practical
- Reframe a dysfunctional belief
Catch the stuck belief ("it’s too late to change careers") and rewrite it as a workable design problem.
- Draft three Odyssey Plans
Sketch three different five-year lives — not variations on one, but genuinely divergent paths.
- Prototype with conversations and experiences
Test a possible path cheaply — talk to someone living it, or try a small slice — before betting on it.
- Wayfinding with a Good Time Journal
Track when you feel engaged and energized to find direction from data, not a sudden epiphany.
- Spot gravity problems
Distinguish problems you can act on from "gravity problems" you can only accept and route around.