Coaching practices for An Employee Has Low Self Confidence and is Performing Poorly How Can I Help
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The person I’m trying to help has basically given up on themselves
- When something doesn’t land the way I hoped, I write the whole thing off as a failure and myself along with it
- Left to my own judgment I either think I’m better than I am or get scared off the very things that would help most
- There are people on my team I’ve quietly written off
- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
Practices that may help
- Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Affirm genuine strengths and effort
Notice and name real strengths the person brings — not empty praise.
Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical - Reframe feedback from outcome to process
After any outcome — good or bad — ask "what did I do well?" before "how did it go?"
The Confidence–Competence Loop - Use a challenge-calibration partner or coach
Have a more skilled observer set the challenge level — your own assessment is biased.
Growth-Edge Training: Practicing at the Edge of Your Ability - Deliberately expand your inner circle
Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Actively seek feedback that could prove you wrong
Ask the people most likely to see your errors — not the people most likely to affirm you.
The Dunning-Kruger Effect, Understood Clearly - Pair confidence work with honest, accurate appraisal of your actual standing
Confidence without accurate self-assessment is overconfidence — the goal is calibrated self-belief, not boosted belief.
Power Posing Revisited - Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up
Give team members specific language for raising concerns, not just permission to raise them.
Psychological Safety in Teams - Ask what the person already knows before offering your assessment
Ask the person to evaluate their own performance before giving yours.
The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead
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