Deliberately expand your inner circle
Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
Why it works
Low-LMX relationships tend to be self-reinforcing: the leader invests less, the member delivers less, the leader trusts less. Breaking this cycle requires the leader to invest first — delegating meaningful work, seeking input, expressing confidence — even before the member has "earned" it through past performance. That investment, when genuine, generates a new performance cycle.
How to do it
- Identify one or two team members currently in lower-LMX relationships and choose to invest in them deliberately.
- Give them a meaningful assignment with real stakes, then provide genuine support — not oversight.
- Check in about their development, not just their task progress.
- Be patient: trust cycles take time to reverse, and the member may be skeptical of the change at first.
Evidence
Training studies show that leaders can improve LMX quality through structured relationship-building, and that improved LMX predicts subsequent performance and satisfaction gains. The mechanism aligns with the Pygmalion effect. Graen, Novak & Sommerkamp (1982) ran a controlled leadership-intervention field study in which raising exchange quality produced measurable productivity gains — direct evidence that the cycle can be started deliberately. (observational)
LMX training research is limited in scale and typically not widely replicated. Real-world application requires sustained intentional effort.
Sources
- Graen, Novak & Sommerkamp (1982), LMX training and subordinate outcomes, Organizational Behavior and Human Performance
- Graen, G. B., Novak, M. A., & Sommerkamp, P. (1982). The effects of leader-member exchange and job design on productivity and satisfaction: Testing a dual attachment model. Organizational Behavior and Human Performance, 30(1), 109-131.
Common mistake
Investing in a low-LMX relationship for a short burst, then reverting — which the team member experiences as more painful than consistent low investment because it raises then dashes expectations.
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More practices for Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
- Assess the current quality of your leader-member relationship
Honestly diagnose where you stand in the relationship before trying to improve it.
- Invest in the relationship before you need it
Build relational credit through reliability and initiative, not charm or performance alone.
- Expand your role through extra-role behavior
Voluntarily take on work beyond your formal responsibilities to signal readiness for a higher-trust relationship.
- Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
- Repair a damaged leader-follower relationship deliberately
Take active steps to reset a deteriorated relationship, rather than allowing avoidance to compound the damage.
- Reciprocate when your leader invests in you
When a leader gives you trust, opportunity, or advocacy, close the loop with visible follow-through.
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