Coaching practices for Applying Consistent Standards

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I wave through arguments on my side that I’d tear apart in a heartbeat if the other side made them
• I keep getting frustrated that people aren’t hitting the bar
• It’s turned into a pure contest of who’ll budge first, and I hate that whoever caves just loses face
• We all kept saying the same word
• A flimsy study that confirms what I want I’ll wave straight through, but a solid one that contradicts me I’ll pick apart for hours

Practices that may help

1. Apply the double-standard check: would I accept this reasoning if it pointed the other way?
   Test whether you are holding your team’s arguments to a lower bar than the other side’s.
   The Scout Mindset
2. Agree in advance on what good performance looks like
   Performance conversations go badly because the standard was never made explicit — the reprimand is the first time it is stated.
   The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
3. Insist on objective criteria to evaluate options
   Agree on an independent standard — market rate, precedent, expert opinion — before applying it to the specific deal.
   Principled Negotiation, Made Practical
4. Clarify the concepts you are using
   Ask for precise definitions before arguments built on contested or ambiguous terms go far.
   Socratic Questioning
5. Apply the same evidence standard regardless of whether you like the conclusion
   Grade the evidence before you know which conclusion it supports.
   Motivated Reasoning
6. Identify which features are actually diagnostic
   Separate features that genuinely differentiate categories from ones that just complete the picture.
   The Representativeness Heuristic — Judging by Resemblance
7. Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
   Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
   Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom
8. Set clear, single-point accountability
   One named owner, an agreed standard, and a check-in cadence set up front — not nagging.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
9. Hold high standards inside high safety
   Safety without standards is comfort; standards without safety is fear. You need both axes high.
   Psychological Safety, Made Practical
10. Match your heuristic to the structure of the environment
    A good rule works because it matches the statistical regularities of the environment — wrong environment, wrong rule.
    Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking

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