Coaching practices for Asking the Felt Sense

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I can finally feel and name what’s going on in me, but then I leap straight to the sensible from-the-head fix
• I can feel this murky thing inside me clearly enough, but every word I reach for to describe it feels like a guess from my head that doesn’t quite land
• When I think about this whole situation there’s something my body clearly registers
• Sometimes while I’m sitting with something there’s this little sigh or loosening in my body, like something quietly let go
• The instant something painful surfaces

Practices that may help

1. Ask the felt sense what it needs
   Once a handle fits, gently ask the felt sense: "What does this need? What would help?"
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
2. Find a handle word or image
   Let a word, phrase, or image arise from the felt sense — not the other way around.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
3. Find the felt sense
   Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
4. Notice and carry forward the felt shift
   Recognize the physical release that signals the felt sense has been genuinely met.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
5. Receive what comes with friendliness
   Welcome whatever emerges from the felt sense without judgment or urgency to fix it.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
6. Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
   Focusing, developed by philosopher and psychotherapist Eugene Gendlin, is a structured inner-listening practice that attends to the "felt sense" — a bodily, pre-verbal knowing about a situation. Small clinical studies and therapist-outcome research suggest people who can access the felt sense make more therapeutic progress, though large controlled trials are lacking. The self-inquiry skills Focusing teaches are low-risk and widely applicable.
7. Resonate and check
   Shuttle between the word and the body to confirm the felt sense is accurately captured.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
8. Locate the feeling of I-ness directly
   Before pursuing "Who am I?" conceptually, first find the raw felt sense of I-ness in the body.
   Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
9. Track body sensation (the felt sense)
   Follow raw physical sensation with curiosity — tingling, warmth, pressure — rather than the storyline.
   Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
10. RAIN — Investigate with kindness
    Gently explore what the feeling is about and what it most needs — with curiosity, not interrogation.
    Radical Acceptance, Made Practical

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