Coaching practices for Attention Management Before Bed

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• The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up
• The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
• The moment the lights go out my brain starts running tomorrow’s to-do list on a loop
• Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood
• I lie down tired but my mind keeps spinning and my body stays switched-on, so I just stare at the ceiling

Practices that may help

1. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
   Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
   CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
2. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
   Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
3. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
   Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
4. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
   A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
5. Box breathing as a sleep-onset tool
   Use the equal-cadence pattern in bed to lower arousal and shorten the time to sleep.
   Box Breathing, Made Practical
6. Build a no-work buffer in the final 60 minutes
   Closing work tasks at least 60 minutes before bed allows the sympathetic nervous system to downregulate before sleep is attempted.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
7. Pre-sleep trataka for insomnia and mind-calming
   A ten-minute trataka session in low light before bed draws scattered thoughts into a single point.
   Trataka: The Yoga Practice of Fixed-Gaze Meditation
8. Use 4-7-8 breathing as a sleep-onset ritual
   Four to eight cycles in bed before sleep reduces physiological arousal and supports the transition into sleep.
   4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical
9. Apply dereflection to insomnia and sleep anxiety
   When you cannot sleep, stop trying to sleep and redirect attention to something you are genuinely curious about instead.
   Logotherapy: Dereflection
10. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
    Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep

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