Coaching practices for Awareness of Urges
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The urges seem to come out of nowhere, but I’m starting to suspect they don’t
- The urge shows up as this relentless voice in my head making the case for why I should just do it, and as long as I’m arguing with the thought it owns me
- The craving to pour the drink, raid the fridge, send the message lands like it absolutely cannot wait
- The urge to bail hits like it’s non-negotiable, like I have to act on it right now
- I either fight the urge with everything I’ve got or I give in — there’s no third option in me.
Practices that may help
- Map your urge triggers
Know the specific situations, emotions, and states that reliably trigger your urges — so you can intervene before they crest.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Locate the urge in your body
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments - Surf the urge to avoid instead of obeying it
Treat the avoidance impulse as a wave to observe and outlast, not a command to obey.
Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth - Observe without obeying
Watch the urge fully — feel its pull, note its strength — without doing anything it demands.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Delay action with a time-based contract
Pre-commit to a specific waiting period before acting on any urge — giving the wave time to crest.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Understand the anatomy of an urge
Learn that urges have a beginning, a peak, and an end — and that acting on or fighting them changes the arc.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Surf the urge instead of fighting it
Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is - Notice the urge as it arises
Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving - Use mindfulness to notice the urge to delay without acting on it
Observe the impulse to switch tasks or check your phone as a transient sensation, not a command.
Procrastination as Emotion Regulation
Related concerns
- Mindful Urge Management
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
Locate the urge in your body
- Observe Without Obeying Urge
Watch the urge fully — feel its pull, note its strength — without doing anything it demands.
Observe without obeying
- Catch The Urge
Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
Notice the urge as it arises
- How Urges Work
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
- Not Acting On Urge
Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
- Physical Sensations Of Urges
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
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