Coaching practices for Catch the Urge
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- I keep finding myself already mid-snack or already typing the sharp reply, with no memory of deciding to
- The craving to pour the drink, raid the fridge, send the message lands like it absolutely cannot wait
- The urge shows up as this relentless voice in my head making the case for why I should just do it, and as long as I’m arguing with the thought it owns me
- When a craving hits it feels like it’ll just keep building and building until I cave
- The same situations set me off every time
Practices that may help
- Notice the urge as it arises
Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving - Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments - Locate the urge in your body
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Ride the wave to its peak and down
Watch the urge rise, crest, and fall without acting — like a wave you are surfing.
Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving - Plan ahead for predictable triggers
Decide in advance how you will surf the urges you know are coming.
Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving - Map your urge triggers
Know the specific situations, emotions, and states that reliably trigger your urges — so you can intervene before they crest.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Understand the anatomy of an urge
Learn that urges have a beginning, a peak, and an end — and that acting on or fighting them changes the arc.
Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical - Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it. - Surf the urge to avoid instead of obeying it
Treat the avoidance impulse as a wave to observe and outlast, not a command to obey.
Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth - Surf the urge instead of fighting it
Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is
Related concerns
- How Urges Work
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
Locate the urge in your body
- Know Your Urge Triggers
Know the specific situations, emotions, and states that reliably trigger your urges — so you can intervene before they crest.
Map your urge triggers
- Urge Surfing Cravings
Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
- Urge Surfing Riding The Wave Of A Craving For My Teenager
Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
- Awareness Of Urges
Know the specific situations, emotions, and states that reliably trigger your urges — so you can intervene before they crest.
- Mindful Urge Management
Track where the urge lives physically — in tension, heat, agitation — rather than engaging with the thought that wants you to act.
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