Coaching practices for Beliefs About Worry

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  • Some part of me is convinced that if I stop worrying I’m letting my guard down and something bad will slip through
  • Underneath the actual worries there’s a second layer — I’m scared that I can’t stop worrying, that all this worrying is going to make me sick or break me — and that fear about the worrying itself spins me up even more.
  • Part of me is convinced that if I stop worrying I’m being careless
  • I’m certain my worrying is just something that happens to me, totally beyond my control, and that belief alone makes it feel hopeless
  • I keep working on the things I worry about and it never helps, and I think I’m aiming at the wrong target

Practices that may help

  1. Notice what you believe about your thoughts
    Examine the beliefs that tell you worrying is useful or necessary — not just the worries themselves.
    Detached Mindfulness, Made Practical
  2. Notice and challenge meta-worry: the fear of worry itself
    Examine the belief that worry is uncontrollable or will cause harm — the worry about worrying.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical
  3. Challenge positive meta-beliefs: does worry actually help?
    Examine the evidence for the belief that worrying helps you cope, prepare, or solve problems.
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  4. Postpone worry as an experiment to test controllability
    Deliberately defer a worry for 30 minutes to prove to yourself that worry is more controllable than you believe.
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  5. Identify your meta-beliefs about worry and rumination
    Surface the beliefs that keep you worrying or ruminating — "worry helps," "I can’t stop," "thinking it through will fix it."
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  6. Productive Problem-Solving vs. Worry
    Distinguish solvable worries — which need a plan — from hypothetical ones — which need acceptance or defusion.
    Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
  7. Test worry predictions with small behavioural experiments
    Treat a feared outcome as a hypothesis and design a small real-world test.
    The Worry Tree
  8. Classify the worry as current or hypothetical
    Ask: "Is this a real problem happening now, or a what-if scenario?"
    The Worry Tree
  9. The Worry Log: Capturing and Categorizing Worries
    Write down each worry as it arises, then categorize it as solvable or hypothetical before the worry window.
    Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
  10. Contain worry with a scheduled worry period
    Assign worry a 20-minute daily window — and redirect it there the rest of the day.
    Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD

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