Coaching practices for Build Anxiety Tolerance
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
- All day I do these little things to kill uncertainty
- Not-knowing feels physically unbearable to me
- My anxiety spikes so fast and over so little that I’m tired of just putting out fires
- There’s a question gnawing at me
Practices that may help
- Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Uncertainty Tolerance Training
Practice tolerating small uncertainties to build the capacity to sit with uncertainty without worrying.
Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry - Build tolerance for uncertainty through graduated exposure
Deliberately practise leaving small things unresolved to expand your uncertainty window.
The Worry Tree - Improve CO2 tolerance to reduce anxiety sensitivity
The 7-count hold in 4-7-8 builds CO2 tolerance — a key factor in anxiety reactivity and panic thresholds.
4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical - Practice sitting with uncertainty without resolving it
Deliberately leave a question unanswered for a set period, as a tolerance-building exercise.
Worry Exposure, Made Practical - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Set realistic expectations before each exposure
Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
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Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
Drop the safety behaviors
- Anxiety Uncertainty Exposure
Worry exposure, developed by Thomas Borkovec as part of his CBT for generalized anxiety disorder, reverses the usual avoidance strategy: instead of suppressing or distracting from worry, you deliberately face the feared scenario in detail, allowing the anxiety to peak and then naturally subside. It is a form of imaginal exposure applied specifically to chronic worry. The evidence base is the broader CBT-GAD literature, in which worry-exposure elements appear as part of well-supported treatment packages.
- How To Deal With Climate Anxiety
Examine and revise the exaggerated danger estimates that keep fear conditioned.
Identify and challenge catastrophic threat appraisals
- How To Handle Climate Anxiety
Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
Set realistic expectations before each exposure
- How To Live With Climate Anxiety
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
Run toward the feeling
- How To Overcome Climate Anxiety
Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
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