Coaching practices for Calibration Training as a Caregiver

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  • I make calls about how things will go all the time, but I never write them down or check them after
  • There’s one area I consider myself an expert in, and that’s exactly where I’m most stubbornly sure and most often wrong
  • My real decisions take months to resolve and matter too much for me to score them honestly, so I never get clean reps
  • When I help someone learn I either smother them with so much help they never struggle, or leave them stranded and lost
  • I’ve been logging faithfully for a while but I’m starting to doubt the numbers

Practices that may help

  1. Calibration Training
    Calibration training teaches you to match your stated confidence levels to your actual accuracy: if you say "70% confident," roughly 70% of those claims should turn out to be correct. Tetlock’s forecasting research and probability training studies show calibration is trainable with practice and feedback — the evidence here is specific and replicable.
  2. Calibration practice
    Predict your performance before each retrieval test, then compare prediction to outcome.
    Self-Regulated Learning: Taking Control of How You Learn
  3. Score your own past predictions to calibrate your outside-view use
    Keep a forecast log and score it — you cannot improve calibration without feedback on where you were over- or under-confident.
    The Outside View
  4. Identify the specific domains where you are most overconfident
    Calibration is domain-specific — find where your confidence most exceeds your accuracy.
    Calibration Training
  5. Build calibration reps with low-stakes trivia and almanac questions
    Use factual trivia questions as a practice ground for calibration — outcomes resolve immediately and the stakes are zero.
    Calibration Training
  6. Provide contingent support: more help when needed, less when not
    Calibrate help to the learner’s actual performance moment by moment rather than delivering a fixed dose.
    Scaffolding: The Art of Temporary Learning Support
  7. Calibrated Questions, Made Practical
    Calibrated questions are open "How" and "What" questions that hand the other party a problem to solve, letting you steer a negotiation or difficult conversation without commands or ultimatums. The technique comes from Chris Voss’s FBI hostage-negotiation work; its mechanism is grounded in autonomy psychology, though the specific scripts are practitioner craft rather than a lab-validated protocol.
  8. Periodically compare self-ratings with objective data
    People systematically miscalibrate self-monitoring — periodic objective checks correct the drift.
    Self-Monitoring, Made Practical
  9. Co-Regulation: Borrowing Calm From Another Nervous System
    Co-regulation is the way one person’s calm, attuned nervous system helps settle another’s — a baby soothed in a steady caregiver’s arms is the original example, but it runs through adult relationships too. It works through attunement: tone, pace, presence, and matched-then-led calm. Drawn from developmental and relational research, it is presented here as an everyday skill for giving and receiving support, not as therapy.
  10. Daily 12-minute ATT practice
    Run the full three-phase ATT session every day as a skill, not a relaxation ritual.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical

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