Coaching practices for Calm the Body First

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The upset is sitting in my body, not my thoughts
• I’m too wound up to think my way calm
• Every time I try to be gentle with myself my body’s still wound tight and braced, and the calming part just won’t take
• I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
• I’m too wound up to reason my way calm

Practices that may help

1. Physical self-soothing
   Use touch, warmth, rocking, or breath to directly calm the nervous system.
   Self-Soothing, Made Practical
2. Five-senses self-soothe
   Deliberately engage each sense with something genuinely comforting to redirect attention and activate the soothing system.
   Self-Soothing, Made Practical
3. Soothing Rhythm Breathing
   Use slow, rhythmic breathing to deliberately activate the physiological soothing system before other compassion practices.
   Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
4. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
   Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
   Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
5. Self-soothe through the five senses
   Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch while the crisis peaks.
   Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
6. TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
   Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
   Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
7. Pair the anchor with slow breathing
   Attach your focus word to a slow, easy breath to add a direct physiological lever for calm.
   The Relaxation Response, Made Practical
8. Peripheral warmth and body temperature as a relaxation signal
   Notice and cultivate warmth in the hands and feet — the peripheral vasodilation that signals deep parasympathetic rest.
   The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical
9. Regulate the body before you process the story
   When you are activated, settle the body first — insight cannot land on a flooded nervous system.
   The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
10. Come down from hyperarousal
    When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
    The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone

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