Coaching practices for Chatter in Your Head

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • My mind won’t stop chewing on the same worry
  • The same thought just loops in my head on a track I can’t get off of
  • I’m stuck way up in my head, this nonstop loop of inner talk running behind my eyes, and I can’t think my way out of it
  • The same unfinished errands keep barging into my head while I’m trying to work
  • The voice in my head never shuts up

Practices that may help

  1. Counting distraction during havening
    Count aloud or silently while stroking to occupy the verbal mind and prevent rumination.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  2. Interrupting chatter with a distancing ritual
    Build a repeatable ritual that moves you from first-person rumination to observer-perspective when chatter loops start.
    Self-Distancing Journaling
  3. Drop from head-based thinking to open, embodied awareness
    Shift location of identity from the chattering mind to the open space of the whole body.
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
  4. Keep a task-unrelated thought log
    Capture off-task thoughts that recur so you can address them outside work time.
    Mind Wandering and the Default Mode Network
  5. Watching the thinker
    Observe your own thoughts as a witness, instead of being lost inside them.
    The Power of Now, In Practice
  6. Capture everything into a trusted inbox
    Get every open loop out of your head and into one external place you trust.
    Getting Things Done (GTD), Made Practical
  7. Quieting the commentary track
    Notice the layer of continuous inner commentary on experience and practise resting in the experience itself.
    Pu: Taoist Simplicity and the Uncarved Block
  8. Sing the thought: defusion through altered delivery
    Repeat a sticky thought in a ridiculous voice, tune, or accent to reveal it as a mental product, not a fact.
    Cognitive Defusion (ACT), Made Practical
  9. Name and externalize the inner critic
    Give the critic a name and treat it as a character, not the truth about you.
    Working With Your Inner Critic
  10. Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
    Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1

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