Counting distraction during havening
Count aloud or silently while stroking to occupy the verbal mind and prevent rumination.
Why it works
Rumination is a verbal, working-memory–intensive process that keeps the stress loop active by replaying and elaborating threat content. A concurrent counting task occupies a portion of the same verbal working-memory resources that rumination needs, reducing its amplitude without requiring willpower to stop thinking. This is consistent with cognitive interference theory: a competing cognitive task partially displaces intrusive cognition.
How to do it
- Begin arm or face havening strokes.
- Count aloud from 1 upward, at roughly one count per stroke cycle.
- If you lose count, simply restart at 1 — not a failure, just a reset.
- Continue until 20 or until you notice the distress has reduced.
- Optionally add visual tracking: look left, right, up, down in sequence as you count.
Evidence
Cognitive interference with intrusive imagery via concurrent tasks is supported in controlled laboratory studies on intrusive thoughts and PTSD-related cognition. Counting as the specific distractor in Havening is practitioner guidance, not separately tested. (mechanistic)
The cognitive-interference evidence is for thought suppression broadly, not for counting in Havening specifically. The combination is theoretically coherent, not empirically isolated.
Sources
- Brewin & Smart (2005), working memory capacity and suppression of intrusive thoughts, Behaviour Research and Therapy
Common mistake
Counting mechanically while simultaneously running the problem through your mind — the count must genuinely occupy your attention, not run in the background while you ruminate.
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