Coaching practices for Cheekbone Stroke Calming
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- When I’m upset I instinctively want to hold my own face, the way someone would cup it if they were comforting me
- The upset is sitting in my body, not my thoughts
- Every time I try to be gentle with myself my body’s still wound tight and braced, and the calming part just won’t take
- When something small rattles me I get stuck up in the activation and can’t find my way back down
- I don’t want to only scramble for calm once I’m already in pieces
Practices that may help
- Face havening
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Physical self-soothing
Use touch, warmth, rocking, or breath to directly calm the nervous system.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Soothing Rhythm Breathing
Use slow, rhythmic breathing to deliberately activate the physiological soothing system before other compassion practices.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Voo pendulation: moving between activation and calm
Briefly evoke mild stress, then use the Voo breath to return to calm — training the regulation arc.
The Voo Breath: Vagal Activation Through Sound - The Havening Place (safe-place induction)
Combine havening strokes with a vividly imagined calm location to deepen resource anchoring.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Cold-water face immersion (full dive reflex activation)
Submerge your face in cold water (or apply an ice pack) for 30 seconds to trigger the dive reflex and slow your heart rate fast.
The Dive Reflex, Made Practical - Five-senses self-soothe
Deliberately engage each sense with something genuinely comforting to redirect attention and activate the soothing system.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Ice pack or cold pack applied to the face
Use a bag of frozen vegetables or ice pack pressed to your forehead, eyes, and cheeks as a portable dive reflex trigger.
The Dive Reflex, Made Practical - Sitali (cooling breath)
Inhale through a curled tongue or between the teeth to cool and calm a heated nervous system.
Nostril Breathing: Pranayama for Calm and Focus - Arm havening stroke
Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
Related concerns
- Facial Calming Touch
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
Face havening
- Nervous System Calming Touch
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
- Self Havening Calming The Nervous System Through Touch After A Loss
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD.
- Calming The Nervous System
Use touch, warmth, rocking, or breath to directly calm the nervous system.
Physical self-soothing
- Self Havening Calming The Nervous System Through Touch At Work
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD.
- Self Havening Calming The Nervous System Through Touch During A Big Change
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD.
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