Coaching practices for Circle of Influence

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • When I genuinely don’t know the right move, I find myself just doing whatever people like me seem to be doing
  • Every small call drags out for days because I’ve looped in so many people for their input that nobody’s opinion actually moves the needle anymore
  • I’m at my best when I’m getting a room aligned and fired up
  • When I’m facing a big decision I realize I have no one wise and honest to think it through with
  • I keep relying on sheer willpower while everything around me

Practices that may help

  1. Circle of Competence
    Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger’s circle of competence is the idea that each person has a domain where their knowledge is genuinely deep, and that the highest-quality decisions come from staying inside that domain — or clearly knowing when you have stepped outside it. The hard part is not identifying the circle but accurately estimating its size.
  2. Social proof
    People look to what similar others are doing to decide what’s correct, especially under uncertainty.
    Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
  3. Limit Consulted to people whose input genuinely changes the decision
    Every C is a two-way conversation that costs time; over-consulting is as dangerous as under-consulting.
    The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
  4. Lead from the influencing domain — take charge, speak up, make sure others are heard
    People strong in influencing sell the team’s ideas inside and outside the organization.
    Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
  5. Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
    Robert Cialdini identified six near-universal levers of persuasion — reciprocity, commitment and consistency, social proof, authority, liking, and scarcity — that bias people toward saying yes. They’re drawn from decades of social-psychology research and field studies; the principles are well established even though individual effect sizes vary by context.
  6. Build a personal board of advisers
    Curate a small group of diverse, trusted people who know your work and challenge your thinking.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  7. Manage your inputs and influences
    Curate what you consume and who surrounds you — small inputs compound too.
    The Compound Effect, Made Practical
  8. Surround yourself with people whose behaviors align with your health goals
    Obesity, smoking, and exercise habits are socially contagious — the people around you are your health environment.
    Blue Zone Principles: The Power 9 Longevity Practices
  9. Engineer your social environment to support the behaviors you want
    The people around you are the most powerful environmental determinant of behavior — choose and structure social exposure intentionally.
    Environment Design for Behavior Change
  10. Activate unity — shared identity before the message
    Establish genuine shared identity with your audience before presenting your position.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical

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