Coaching practices for Common Good Decision Making
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’m weighing a choice and I notice I’m only asking what’s best for me, then quietly building a clever story for why that’s also fine for everyone
- I’m facing a big decision and I keep weighing only how it plays out over the next year or two
- I tend to decide on my own and then use the meeting just to announce it
- Under all this pressure to please people and react, I’m about to make a call that I already sense doesn’t square with who I actually want to be
- Our discussions run on whoever’s loudest and most comfortable, so the easy topic everyone has an opinion on eats forty minutes while the decision that actually matters gets five at the end when we’re all worn out.
Practices that may help
- Test your actions against the common good
Ask whether what you’re about to do serves or damages the common good — not just your interests.
Sympatheia — the Stoic Practice of Universal Interconnection - The seventh-generation test for decisions
Before a major choice, ask how it will affect people seven generations from now.
The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life - Make decisions through debate, not declaration
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them - Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
The 10-10-10 Rule - Match discussion time explicitly to the weight of the decision
Before any group discussion, set a time budget proportional to the decision’s actual importance — not its accessibility.
Parkinson’s Law of Triviality: Stop Bikeshedding - Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
A decision journal is a written record of significant decisions — what you decided, why, what you expected to happen, and what actually happened. It counteracts hindsight bias and outcome bias by preserving your actual reasoning before the outcome arrives, and it creates the only feedback loop that produces real calibration: comparing your predictions to results across many decisions over time. - Adopt satisficing instead of maximizing
Set a "good enough" threshold before you search, then stop when you hit it.
Choice Overload, Made Practical - Stay inside for high-stakes, irreversible decisions
Reserve your autonomous judgment for decisions within your circle; get help for the rest.
Circle of Competence - Disagree and commit on two-way doors
Voice your disagreement fully, then commit to the group decision and give it a genuine try.
The Two-Way Door - Disagree and commit — reduce the decision drag of endless debate
Decisions that are made and executed at 80% confidence are almost always better than decisions endlessly refined but never taken.
Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)
Related concerns
- Group Decision Making Framework
Voice your disagreement fully, then commit to the group decision and give it a genuine try.
Disagree and commit on two-way doors
- Sustainable Decision Making
Before a major choice, ask how it will affect people seven generations from now.
The seventh-generation test for decisions
- Annie Duke Decision Making
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
- Decision Commitment Meeting
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
Make decisions through debate, not declaration
- Decision Journaling Learning To Decide Better Over Time With My Team
A decision journal is a written record of significant decisions — what you decided, why, what you expected to happen, and what actually happened. It counteracts hindsight bias and outcome bias by preserving your actual reasoning before the outcome arrives, and it creates the only feedback loop that produces real calibration: comparing your predictions to results across many decisions over time.
- Decision Making Through Debate
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
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