Coaching practices for Communication Goal Setting

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• When someone I’m coaching brings me a topic, we just end up circling it and venting
• My team and I keep ending up at cross purposes
• Every goal I write ends up small and safe
• I set these big ambitious goals but the moment the first real obstacle shows up I quietly let them shrink
• I set a hard number on something I’ve genuinely never done before, and now I’m anxious and frozen

Practices that may help

1. Clarify the Goal with precision
   Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
2. One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
   A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
   The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
3. Sidestep the SMART pitfalls
   Use SMART to clarify execution — not to shrink your ambition or freeze your goal.
   SMART Goals That Actually Move
4. Build genuine commitment before the work begins
   Goal commitment is the moderator — without it, a hard goal backfires.
   Goal Setting Theory, Made Practical
5. Use learning goals instead of performance goals on novel tasks
   When the skill is new, a "figure out how to do X" goal outperforms "achieve X by date."
   Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire
6. Make stretch goals specific, not just big
   A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
   Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire
7. Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
   Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
8. Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention
   A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
   Process Goals, Made Practical
9. Write a formal commitment contract with a referee and stakes
   Formalize your goal with a clear metric, a deadline, stakes you’ll lose if you fail, and a referee who enforces it.
   Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
10. Specific — name the exact behavior or result
    Replace “get fit” with a single, concrete target you could photograph or count.
    SMART Goals That Actually Move

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